the world often sees u, for you for your strengths...and that why is u require a person close to u...is for them to be able to see you for your weaknesses and become your pillars of support...
that is why you need that special to be there, cause you can't let yourself be vulnerable infront of many...it takes a great deal of trust to be totally naked...
it takes a great deal of love and sacrifice to become the blanket of warmth for someone...
Saturday, October 25, 2008
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why did you write this? you tore my heart out and put it into words... what a tragedy, that he wont read it...
i really dont feel the need of a special someone in my life :)
lovely! can u be my 'warmth' then? :)
Keshi.
But I hv to agree with SWATS...I really dun feel such a need either...Im special just the way I am..I dun need anyone else to unravel me.
Keshi.
or am I wrong?
Keshi.
ok now that the discussion has started.. here is my take...
" warmth" is nice to have but not necessary! Life could be pretty rocking if you have someone who ' sees' you through and through... but if you choose to be your own ' special someone' ... life wont be too bad either.
lets say... warmth is not a need but a luxury few ppl have...
sometimes even with the special someones, you need to remain hidden...plus its best to be vulnerable only in front of yourself.
@ queen bean... You speak my language
i think you have to be really shameless to be naked. It's never the presence of other person, we are all just afraid of ourselves.
how's that for a thought?
;)
N
As long as the decision holds at all times...
but sometimes the decision is more of that euphemism...'majboori ka naam mahatma gandhi'
:P
@nothingman...main toh nangaa paidaa huaa thaa...janam jaat besharam hoon :P
Totally agree..! sometimes U just have to appear strong in front of soo many people just to be their pillar of support while everyone deep down needs a pillar of support for themselves.. just to be totally themselves!
And i quote from the movie shall we dance
Beverly Clark: We need a witness to our lives. There's a billion people on the planet... I mean, what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you're promising to care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things... all of it, all of the time, every day. You're saying 'Your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it. Your life will not go un-witnessed because I will be your witness'."
**'Your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it. Your life will not go un-witnessed because I will be your witness'."
I really dun care if my life goes noticed/unnoticed by others. what matters to me is that I notice MYSELF. :)
Keshi.
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