ok the next two posts as per the plan were something more innocent...but coming back from the gym i was pondering on this topic...hence i will post this topic :P
so if u read the last post...it was about aghoris and nakedness in a relationship...
but i didn't interconnect the two...i will now...in just a minute...but i need to spend a few lines on a build up to that...
sex can be an addiction...done out of the force of habit...it can be spiritual...where u deliberate on every moment of it
smoking can be an addiction...done out of the force of habit...it can be spiritual...where u enjoy every puff of it
living can be an addiction...where u live out of the force of habit...or it can be spiritual...where u can feel the energy of every breathe that enters your body
so now i come to relationships and aghoris...a relationship and here i'm just restricting myself to romantic relationships...is a commune of two people...
and now switching to aghoris...the whole concept of aghoris is to end the concept of duality...of difference...and that by the most agressive way...the most horrifying way to normal people...
and i was wondering is kinky sex an expression of the same...the pain, the humiliation...of a strapon sex...of footworship...of flogging...of collaring her...i'll not go into further descriptions...but the more i think about it...the more i believe kinky sex is about stripping the partners of their dignity...that one layer of duality that separates the two...once the ego is gone...the two partners are no longer two...they may be physically two bodies...but the trust and understanding between the two...is of one person.
it may not be the only way of establishing singularity of existence between two people...it may be the aghori way...but that's what i understand it is...
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Anything that we do/ indulge in for ' expression' is a personal choice. What is wrong and insane for the whole world might be the most right and sane thing for one.
The thought to ponder is " how many of us find that expression?" It might be sex, smoking for some,it might be spirituality for others.
Like u said, to each his own 'understanding..'
and here is hoping each one of us, find our ' expression'...
Last even, at home a conversation arose about "sexuality over the years" and how even in the 12/13th century the concept of BDSM etc were talked of... its something that then through the years has perplexed us
in the context of this post.. be it the aghoris, the man tripping on acid, the couple expressing themselves by power play.. the essence remains that for that moment of time.. there is nothing else that has space. In each of these instances the players are ALIVE only to that one moment ..
sustainable.. it may not be, but then again one only remembers moments in life.. never the entire days
"the more i believe kinky sex is about stripping the partners of their dignity...that one layer of duality that separates the two...once the ego is gone" its abt the way u wanto see it...strippin off is like stripping off ur ego and that is when 2 becom 1.
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