Wednesday, January 14, 2009

alone : solitude and loneliness

small post this...

people find themselves alone at various points in life...sometimes its solitude...when one wants to be alone...to be able to talk to own self...to ponder, contemplated and deliberate with self...or maybe just to sit around in peace with no pondering

then there are times when one wants to speak to someone...and you find that of all the numbers on your phonebook, there is none u can call...everybody has their own lives and their priorities...your friends are busy with their work, or own families, too caught up in their own troubles or maybe even if they were available it wouldn't help much...because not every person can be allowed to be deeply intimate with your life...

i have been alone in both the ways...and know how peaceful and calming the first can be...and how the second one is like living hell...

after this comes the para of preaching...but i'm not gonna do that...trust your destinies to understand the unwritten para and take you to your future...

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

i could relate to both sides of it.. i was waiting for the preaching though..

Anonymous said...

I can relate to your post

Keshi said...

I dun hv to ATTEND to my LONELINESS anymore :). Meaning, its become a part of who I am.


**then there are times when one wants to speak to someone...and you find that of all the numbers on your phonebook, there is none u can call...

I've been there many times. I hv many friends, but there hv been times that I wanted to talk to someone and found no one.


Now I just go with my Instincts and listen to my innervoice for company...


I like this post.


Keshi.

Unknown said...

if of hundreds of number on ur phonebook, u cant call anyone..i guess then u are in a sad sad situation. Either ur too lost to see who is on ur team...or u've just build up ur walls so high that u cant escape( let alone someone enter..)
but irrespective of what happens, u still are in a sad sad situation...

Benaam Badnaam said...

@Pinku...koi naee lectures ki mere paas kami naee hai :P

@Swats... :)

@Keshi...i know wat u mean

@Shoe girl...i know its a sad sad situation...i know the people who're on my team...and i'm glad i have a good team...but this is not about that...its about that one person...who cares for u more than u care for ureself...unfortunately even with low walls...nobody wants to enter...and yes....again...it is a sad sad situation

Prakhar said...

two in a day...keshi also said something similar in her post..some kind of gen-x syndrome i guess...at times we seem to enjoy the loneliness...thats sad :(