Monday, July 14, 2008

For the love of people

I had this quip where i had said...man is supposedly a 'social animal' but these days we're more 'animal' than 'social', and probably if we were more social than animal there would be more love than hate in this world since there would be more people we care for...

And when we talk about social networking sites like orkut or blogger i think they provide a wonderful opportunity for people to reach out and connect to others, I have been blessed i have met many an interesting people through here and in the process a little of me has mixed with them and a little of them is dissolved into me. And while safety and trustability remains an issue, some common sense and the lord's blessings allow me to be risky and trust people's good side and dish out my mail address and cell no. almost indiscriminately...

and yet i feel i have achieved nothing...The day i believe when a million pakistanis and a million indians simply choose to walk towards the borders...with the armed forces of both the countries watching not knowing who to shoot and how many...is when probably we will be able to say we've become social again...that will be a true festival like the breaking of the berlin wall...

I'd like to end up wid words that are conjuring up in my head:

fakiron ke ghar baarat naee aatee (the house of saints don't light up for their marriages)
unke janaazon ki shaan hoti hai (it is their death that becomes a celebration)
unki khusheeyon mein shareeq naheen hote (people don't gather to celebrate their happy occassions)
unke jaane pe aasoon ki baad aati hai (it is when they are gone that their lovers cry for them)

fakiron ki baat hi alag hoti hai (saints are a different breed)
woh kissi ek ke naee hote (they are not for any one)
poori duniya unki hoti hai (but the whole world is their family)
unke chaahane waalon ki line mein khuda bhi shaan se khada hota hai (saints have so many people who love them, that even god proudly stands in queue to meet them)


do read the book...three cups of tea...it is about an american mountaineer...who has dedicated his life to building schools for children especially girls in the remotest areas of pakistan and afghanistan

11 comments:

Keshi said...

wow powerful post mate! LOVED IT.


**some common sense and the lord's blessings allow me to be risky and trust people's good side and dish out my mail address and cell no. almost indiscriminately

hehe me too. But I hvnt done that with too many ppl. ONLY VERY FEW.




**with the armed forces of both the countries watching not knowing who to shoot and how many...is when probably we will be able to say we've become social again

I so agree!


I mean there's so much love n bonding on the net but the real world lacks from it big time. WHY?


Love the verse!

Will try to get hold of that book if possible.


Also dun feel that u hv achieved nothing. U hv done ur part. If world leaders and terrorists dun wanna try LOVE, is it ur fault? I dun think so.



Keshi.

Benaam Badnaam said...

thanks...but one day probably a million people will cross the borders...and hug each other...one day probably i'll be the among the first to cut the wires and officially 'destroy' the borders that keep us apart

Keshi said...

wow I hope so too. But dun hope too much. Just live for today.

Keshi.

Benaam Badnaam said...

hmm...tht sounds like a nice piece of advice...

Benaam Badnaam said...

http://www.threecupsoftea.com/

Keshi said...

ty :) will check it out soon.

Keshi.

Benaam Badnaam said...

and on the humorous side...rent a dvd of...walk all over me...

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0907680/

but remember it is a very silly movie...dont expect a great story...but a silly one...gud enuf to last a bag of popcorns

Benaam Badnaam said...

u know sedentary lifestyle and all...can actually kill u in the seat as they say...

i manage to catch a game of tennis around 2-3 times a week...

and have started gyming to...though that is more so that i get in shape for the half marathon around december...

from the last time i ran it two years back...i completely out of shape

Benaam Badnaam said...

i see what u mean by pc addiction...neways come on yahoo if u feel like :)

Keshi said...

haha yes..Im worried I'll turn into a PC Virus!


I get my bit of exercise too..I dance alot and go for daily walks :)

Wow ur a marathon runner?


Keshi.

Benaam Badnaam said...

ran it once....21kms...dont know how...hoping to repeat the miracle :)

wow u dance, sweet...i learnt a couple of them salsa, jive, cha cha cha...couple of years back...almost forgotten everything :(

i like walking too...not as an exercise...just enjoy some thoughtful moments wid me